Some things are absolutely perfect, like our recent holiday to Jenolan Caves. As I look at the photos, I smile. I know I’ll enjoy the memories of that wonderful time again and again.
But some things are far from perfect. Some memories make me wince. I’d rather not think about certain times in the past. I don’t want to remember I was once called the Dragon Mother. Oh yes, once upon a time I could breathe fire and send everyone running. But that was years ago. That angry fire within me has just about gone out.
So am I now a perfect mother?
I discuss this question in this week’s podcast, as I revisit a time when parenting and homeschooling used to overwhelm me.
I also attempt to answer the following questions:
If it is necessary for us to be good examples for our unschooling children, must we be perfect?
Or is there something far more important than perfection?
Why is unconditional love so powerful?
Do some bloggers appear to be perfect?
Are there times when we should be open and honest, even if it means revealing our mistakes?
Do I ever have bad days?
Am I a ‘real’ podcaster?
Should I be podcasting when I make so many mistakes?
Will my podcasts improve? Will they ever be perfect?
If you listen to the end of my podcast, you’ll also hear a few of Sophie’s (13) thoughts on perfection, forgiveness and love. You’ll find this extra recording just before my final signing off.
Show Notes
blog posts about difficult days
Music
Modifications: I faded in and faded out a few bars and used them between podcast segments.
These photos were taken on our perfect ‘best holiday ever’ to Jenolan Caves.
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Sue Elvis, I just think you're beautiful! Thank you so much for putting yourself out there on the internet, being true and honest and brave! What a blessing you are!
Faith,
You have cheered me up. Thank you! It was lovely of you to listen to my podcast and I do appreciate your kind words which will encourage to keep going.
Oh I've spent so much time feeling so repentant for my temper and desire to perfection. Thank you for sharing your story. I agree that you are such a beautiful woman inside and out. Thank you for sharing. You are so courageous. You are a beacon.
Kim,
Maybe we are all very imperfect. We worry about what others think of us. We might say: If they only knew what I'm really like! When I am honest, I sometimes think, "But what if no one has the same struggles as me? What if they think I'm a terrible person?" I end up sharing anyway, and I've always been treated with such kindness and understanding. It's easy to be courageous when I have so many beautiful friends. Thank you so much for your very kind words which have made my day. xx