Last Wednesday morning, just after sunrise, we headed into the bush to record another music video for Imogen.
“What song are you singing today, Imogen?” I asked.
“May it Be from The Lord of the Rings, the Enya song.”
“Do I know that one?”
“You’ll recognise it once you hear it.”
Did I recognise it? Was the song familiar to me? I don’t know. I have to admit I didn’t listen properly. I was far too distracted to concentrate on Imogen’s beautiful singing. You see, I had my eye on a leech that was looking for a victim.
Yes, we were in a leech-infested part of the bush. We risked our lives as we operated the cameras, capturing enough clips to turn into a music video. Was the danger worth it? Is the video a good one? I guess we’ll have to wait for people’s reactions when Imogen uploads the video to her Youtube channel on Wednesday.
When we do things in the public eye, there’s always the risk we’ll receive criticism instead of the positive feedback we’re hoping for. This doesn’t worry Imogen. She knows criticism is an opportunity for learning. But most of us don’t react that way. We worry about other people’s opinions. We might worry so much we’re afraid of trying new things just in case we fail. Of course, if we do that we’ll end up missing out on all kinds of interesting experiences.
Just imagine if Imogen wasn’t brave enough to make music videos. She wouldn’t have asked us to head into the bush with her last Wednesday. We wouldn’t have encountered all those leeches and a million mosquitos. We wouldn’t have demanded danger money, and Imogen wouldn’t have offered us ice cream as our payment. Yes, we wouldn’t have found ourselves enjoying ice cream smothered with hot caramel sauce early on a weekday morning when everyone else was on their way to school or work.
Ice cream sundaes for breakfast? Perhaps facing our fear of leeches was worth it. What do you think?
In this week’s podcast, I talk about the fear of failing.
In episode 66, I discuss the following questions:
- Are we reluctant to try new things because we fear we might fail?
- Why do we fear failure when we know we learn from our mistakes?
- How can we encourage our kids to give new things a go?
- How do we react when they do make mistakes?
- And are some people afraid to try unschooling?
I also share some stories and a few resources.
Hug Your Haters by Jay Baer
You can find more episodes of my Stories of an Unschooling Family podcast on
Please feel welcome to comment on this week’s podcast. Have you ever been afraid to try something new? Perhaps you have an inspiring story to tell. I’d love to hear it!
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