Often we make decisions based on the opinions and expectations of others. Without considering whether something is good for us or not, whether it suits our family or fulfils our needs and those of our children, we toss away anything that might make us unacceptable in the eyes of other people. All it takes is a few words, the tone of someone’s voice, or some raised eyebrows, and we begin to doubt ourselves.Why don’t we stand firm and have confidence in our opinions and decisions? Why don’t we trust ourselves? Why are we so easily swayed by other people? Is it because we have a deep longing for acceptance and a place to belong?