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Choosing Not to Worry About What Other People Might Think

Choosing Not to Worry About What Other People Might Think
When you're looking for photos of yourself to post on your blog or Facebook page, do you ever reject any? And if you do, what don't you like about them? I often reject photos that show too many of my wrinkles. "That one makes me ...

Tired and Difficult Days

Tired and Difficult Days
Today I'm tired. "Have you got anything you really need to do?" asks my daughter Imogen. "I haven't yet recorded my podcast," I reply. "I should do that today." "Well, you do that first, and then you must rest. We'll look after you." I'm very ...

Trust, Respect, and Love Unconditionally

Trust, Respect, and Love Unconditionally
Yesterday, I wrote a blog post called A Few Raw Thoughts on a Crumpled Piece of Paper. In this post, I explored some thoughts about unconditional love, respect, and trust. This morning, I told my daughter Sophie what I'd been writing about, and she started ...

Ideas, Passions, and Earning an Income

Ideas, Passions, and Earning an Income
Has blogging changed? Are people no longer very interested in reading my posts? Maybe they prefer listening to my podcasts? Is it time to close up my blog and move onto other things? I pondered these questions in my last blog post. I came to ...

Love and a Mother’s Heart Stories

Love and a Mother's Heart Stories
Children bring us great joy. Our hearts overflow with love for them. We enfold them in our arms and enjoy. But sometimes that same love can cause our hearts to ache. There are times when we wonder if our soft mothers' hearts will survive. And ...

The Dead Body and Other Stories

The Dead Body and Other Stories
At the moment, it's the school holidays here in Australia. My school teacher husband, Andy, is home from work for a couple of weeks. Life around here changes a bit when Andy's at home. We tend to do different things at different times. And because ...

The Fear of Failing

The Fear of Failing
Last Wednesday morning, just after sunrise, we headed into the bush to record another music video for Imogen. "What song are you singing today, Imogen?" I asked. "May it Be from The Lord of the Rings, the Enya song." "Do I know that one?" "You'll ...

Dealing with Our Fears and Other People’s Critical Comments

Dealing with Our Fears and Other People's Critical Comments
The other day my daughter Sophie received an email. She read part of it out to me and then said, "What do you think?" "She hasn't expressed herself very well," I remarked. "I don't suppose she meant to sound so abrupt." "How do I reply?" ...

The Joy and Love of Living an Unschooling Way of Life

The Joy and Love of Living an Unschooling Way of Life
Last Friday, my girls and I had a wonderful morning filming Imogen's latest music video on the banks of a local river. On our way home, we couldn't help expressing our gratitude for the life we lead. While other people are going to school and ...

Wasting Time Watching Too Many Movies?

Wasting Time Watching Too Many Movies?
  "What shall I get Dad for his birthday?" I asked, and my girls giggled, and with one voice said, "Flowers... chocolates... promises you don't intend to keep...""Flowers... chocolates... promises you don't intend to keep...? Where's that quote from?" "Beauty and the Beast!" Of course! ...

Young Adult Unschoolers, Dreams, Love and Marriage

Young Adult Unschoolers, Dreams, Love and Marriage
The other evening, my husband Andy said, "What's Imogen doing these days?" Imogen is our 21-year-old daughter. She finished her Bachelor of Arts degree last November. Since then she has been pursuing her passions. "She's been working on her novels," I replied, "and we told you ...

Maths, Chores, and Thanking Our Kids

Maths, Chores, and Thanking Our Kids
For the past couple of weeks, we've been living a quiet life. We haven't done anything exciting. No music video shoots. No picnics by the lake. We haven't even been running. The reason? We've all been unwell. It can be frustrating having to slow down, ...

Listening to Kids

Listening to Kids
The other day I interviewed my 14-year-old daughter, Sophie: I wanted to hear her opinions about perfect families, mistakes and listening to kids. It was only later when I watched the finished video, I realised I'd made a big mistake: I'd done more talking than ...

Thinking Critically About Unschooling

Thinking Critically About Unschooling
The other day I was talking about obstacles to unschooling. I said, "So I wonder if there are things about unschooling that bother you, It can be a useful exercise to think about what it is that's stopping you from unschooling. Write it down. It might ...

Busy Days and Catch-Up Days

Busy Days and Catch-Up Days
  Do you ever have weeks where you find yourself racing through your days trying to keep up? We're having one of those weeks right at the moment. Usually, we get up early each day. We work our way through our morning routine, and then ...

Obstacles to Unschooling

Obstacles to Unschooling
In last week's podcast, I asked the question: What's stopping you from unschooling? And then I pondered some of the obstacles that might be holding people back from giving unschooling a go. After the podcast was published, a friend asked if I'd transcribe it into ...

Responding to Unschooling and Other Critics

Responding to Unschooling and Other Critics
Earlier this week, I got involved in a long and involved conversation on Facebook. I don't usually do this, but this time, I didn't have a choice. The discussion began on my timeline. It was rather a heated debate: There was more than one opinion ...

What’s Stopping You From Unschooling?

What's Stopping You From Unschooling?
I'm sure there are many people investigating unschooling. But not everyone who considers unschooling will actually decide to give it a go. Why's that? What holds people back? Do they like the sound of some aspects of unschooling but aren't sure about others? In this ...

Fan Mail and Lots of Unschooling Thoughts

Fan Mail and Lots of Unschooling Thoughts
This morning I felt very discouraged. Perhaps it was the result of being overtired. I don't know. It's strange how grey the world looks when we're tired. Earlier today, nothing excited me. I didn't want to blog or podcast. Sharing unschooling didn't seem important. All ...

Our Typical Unschooling Mornings

Our Typical Unschooling Mornings
This post follows on from Why Some Kids Are Willing to Help With the Chores. I've been thinking about how our life does look rather conventional. What makes our life... different from any structured homeschoolers' life? Is it any different? How do we tell if someone ...

Why Some Kids Are Willing to Help with the Chores

Why Some Kids Are Willing to Help with the Chores
I said that I have to be a good example if I want my children to help me get the house organised each morning… I have to jump out of bed and go out there and dive into the chores. I have to be willing ...

Our Unschooling Morning Routine

Our Unschooling Morning Routine
Just before Christmas, Karen asked me if I could write about our typical unschooling days.  I spoke about this topic in a podcast a few months ago, so I thought I'd share some of what I said in a short series of posts. Today, I'm ...

How to Podcast: Editing an Episode

How to Podcast: Editing an Episode
This is Part 3 of my How-to-Podcast series. The first post was How to Podcast: What You Need. The second one was How to Podcast: Recording an Episode. Today, I'm going to talk about editing. So you've recorded your first podcast episode. I bet you ...

How to Podcast: Recording an Episode

How to Podcast: Recording an Episode
This is Part 2 of  my How-to-Podcast series. Have you read Part 1? It's called How to Podcast: What You Need. Have you got all your podcasting equipment? Are you ready to make your first episode? Let's go! 1. Plan the episode Without a plan, ...

How to Podcast: What You Need

How to Podcast: What You Need
The other day, my daughter Sophie and I were talking about how people probably think we're very strange. We're a very strange unschooling family, different from everybody else. And Sophie said, "Mum, people would think you're even stranger if they knew that every week you ...

Encouraging Kids’ Ideas

Encouraging Kids' Ideas
The other day, I was telling you about my plans to transcribe parts of my podcasts. I want to make them into blog posts. I found some software called Transcribe to help me, and this afternoon, I tried it out. I transcribed a segment from ...

How All Kids Are Amazing

How All Kids Are Amazing
The other day, I read a parenting article in which the author said that parents can love their kids too much. I told my daughter Imogen about this and she was horrified: "You can never love a child too much!" I wonder what the author ...

Life after University: Following Dreams

Life after University: Following Dreams
The other day in my post, On to a New Stage in Life, I was telling you how my daughter Imogen has finished her Bachelor of Arts degree. For the past three years, she's been studying Professional Writing and Publishing. Now Imogen is about to ...

Attachment Parenting and Unschooling

Attachment Parenting and Unschooling
My first child was a perfect baby. She ate and played and smiled, and then when she was tired, she put herself to sleep. She even slept through the night. I thought I was a perfect mother. (What was everyone else doing wrong?) But my ...

The Awesome Teacher and Other Stuff

The Awesome Teacher and Other Stuff
My daughter Sophie is very busy. Every morning she opens her computer, impatient to begin work. "What are you doing?" I ask. "I'm coding. I'm modifying the template on my 'test' blog." Sophie shows me what she's doing. "Are you writing the code from scratch?" ...

If You Haven’t Got Time to Listen to a Whole Podcast…

If You Haven't Got Time to Listen to a Whole Podcast...
"What are you going to do this week, Mum?" "I'm going to make a couple of videos." And I did! So what are they about? The first one is about encouraging kids' ideas. Sometimes, to us, children's ideas sound impractical or even silly. Is it ...

Getting Older, Unschooling, and Moving On

Getting Older, Unschooling, and Moving On
My unschooling blog has a limited life. One day, in the not too distant future, I will no longer have anything to write about. My youngest child will have grown up and moved onto a new stage of her life. I'll no longer be sharing ...

Fabulous Christmas: Gift Ideas and Traditions

Fabulous Christmas: Gift Ideas and Traditions
My head is always overflowing with creative ideas, and there's nothing I like better than turning them into reality. And so I spend lots of time making things. But they're things no one can hold. You see, I'm a virtual creator. I make things while ...

Lacking Inspiration

Lacking Inspiration
My writing life goes round in circles. At times, I feel excited. I have lots of things I want to write about. My words flow onto the computer screen, no problem at all. And then one day I wake up and I feel flat. When ...

Stolen Paintings and Real Life Maths

Stolen Paintings and Real Life Maths
Last week was a hunting week... My daughters and I watched as the FBI tried to hunt down a number of stolen masterpieces. And then I went on a hunt for some real life maths experiences. (Where's all that maths everyone says the world is ...

Do My Unschoolers Mind Being Different?

Do My Unschoolers Mind Being Different?
When my first child was a baby, I read all the parenting books I could get my hands on, including one with a title something like: Your Child Can Be a Genius. I read the book and thought about its contents very carefully. And quickly ...

When Our Help and Strewing Are Rejected

When Our Help and Strewing Are Rejected
My daughter Charlotte used to be openly enthusiastic about everything. Every evening she'd be eager to tell me about all the things she'd discovered that day. She'd listen to my ideas and ask for resources. Then things changed. During the last year or so of ...

Liking, Tweeting, Pinning, Aching…

Liking, Tweeting, Pinning, Aching...
Years ago, when I first started blogging, I wanted to be popular. I looked at all the big bloggers with envious eyes, and dreamed of a day when I'd have just as many followers as they did. After a while my dream changed which is ...

How Registered Homeschoolers Can Unschool

How Registered Homeschoolers Can Unschool
If our children are obliged to learn what's in the school syllabus in order to have their homeschool registration applications approved, surely they can't unschool? How can they follow their interests and still fulfil the registration requirements? My children are registered homeschoolers. They are also ...

Strengthening Family Bonds

Strengthening Family Bonds
My wonderful super computer won't boot up. I turned it off the other evening and now it refuses to operate. It's rather difficult to blog and podcast without a computer. Actually, it's impossible. That's why I didn't have a new podcast episode to post yesterday ...

One Way My Blog Might Be Useful

One Way My Blog Might Be Useful
I’ve always wanted my blog to be useful. Telling family stories is all very well, but I’d like to do more. Sometimes I visit other blogs and see all kinds of fantastic things that will help homeschoolers do things better. Some bloggers design great looking ...

On Holiday: History, Geography and Record Keeping

On Holiday: History, Geography  and Record Keeping
At the moment, my son Callum and his wife are away from home, enjoying their honeymoon. I suppose they're on holiday, a very special one. My husband Andy is also on holiday. It's the end of the official school term and because he's a school ...

Chores and Our Typical Unschooling Day

Chores and Our Typical Unschooling Day
The other morning, after we'd done the morning chores and said prayers together, I asked my girls what they wanted to do. "Can we go to the post office?" asked Gemma-Rose. "I want to post my letters." My eleven-year-old daughter has been writing a lot ...

Perhaps I Shouldn’t Have Told You about Our Typical Unschooling Day

Perhaps I Shouldn't Have Told You about Our Typical Unschooling Day
Five Wild Turkeys In my last podcast, I spoke about our typical unschooling day. Every day we get up early, do our chores as a team, and then say prayers together before getting on with the work of the day. We eat regular meals, sitting ...

A Bit of Murder in Our Typical Unschooling Day

A Bit of Murder in Our Typical Unschooling Day
"Miss Scarlett did it in the conservatory with the dagger," Gemma-Rose announces to her older sisters. Miss Scarlett, the conservatory and the dagger: Those words belong to my childhood. Many years ago, I loved playing Cluedo with my own sisters. I hoped I'd be the first ...

How I Made a ‘Huge’ Mistake and Was Forgiven

How I Made a 'Huge' Mistake and Was Forgiven
Some days are difficult. Unexpected things happen, and mistakes are made. Clouds blow in and blot out the usual sunshine of our days, and we feel miserable. We let those mistakes overwhelm us. We get bogged down in woe, unable to move on, not because ...

Is Unschooling Just Living Life?

Is Unschooling Just Living Life?
Sometimes life gets busy. Too busy. I like empty weeks: five days waiting to be filled with whatever we like. I thought last week was going to be an empty week. But unexpected things happened. We ended up having lots of appointments to attend and ...

Encouraging Kids to Write (and the Youngest Child in the Family)

Encouraging Kids to Write (and the Youngest Child in the Family)
When my son Duncan was about six or seven years old, his head was bursting with stories he wanted to tell. Every morning he would sit in front of an old manual typewriter and hammer on the keys and his tale would appear on the ...

Popularity, Learning to Read and Shakespeare

Popularity, Learning to Read and Shakespeare
Is there such a thing as a typical unschooling day? What about a typical unschooling week? Do my children spend equal time on all the key learning areas? The answer is no! We tend to get immersed in a few things at a time. This ...

Learning from My Daughter and Other Unschool Stories

Learning from My Daughter and Other Unschool Stories
Once upon a time, I knew more than Sophie when it came to our shared passions. But I have to admit, these days, her knowledge far exceeds mine. Now I'm learning from my daughter. "How did you make that blog post graphic?" I ask. "I'll ...
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